Baptism is not a magic trick in which a person’s soul is guaranteed a free pass into heaven. No is the lack of baptism a condemnation to the underworld.  It is simply an initiation rite that recognizes what God has done in the life of the initiate and an acceptance into the church universal. Not a specific denomination, Methodist, Roman Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, etc, but into the Christian faith as a whole. Thus, a baptized Roman Catholic or a baptized United Methodist are both members of the universal Christian faith.

In one of my previous churches a young couple were talking to me about their brand new baby.  Of course, I asked them about their readiness to have him baptized. They told me they did not want to baptize him because they did not want to influence his decision to become a Christian later in life.  In my mind I thought about another couple who had made the same decision years ago not to try to influence their children’s religious beliefs taking them to church or sending them to Sunday School.  In that case, their children grew up without a frame work against which they could form their own beliefs.  They had no knowledge of what Christianity, or for that matter any other religious tradition had to offer. They had no foundation upon which to grow.  Their parents were not an influence in their spiritual development.

Recently, I was listening to a school teacher complain that the parents of the children in her class seemed uninterested in participating in the moral or ethical development of their children, expecting that the school system should do that part. As a result, the teacher was in the position of being expected to teach the basics of reading, writing, and arithmetic, as well as history, science, health, civics, and then ethics as well.  She felt out of her depth and overwhelmed. Too much to expect from someone with 34 children in a class.

In baptism, we take the opposite view about influencing our children.  In baptism parents and sponsors take vows to intentionally be an influence in the lives of those baptized.  Not only parents and sponsors, but the entire congregation makes the same vow to raise up the baptized in the Christian faith, giving them the foundation upon which they can make informed decisions later in life about what kind of relationships they will have with God, with Christ, with the Church, and with the people with whom they come in contact.

My parents didn’t have a perfect faith, but they made the decision to raise me in the Church and that gave me the basis upon which I could form my own beliefs.  I did not always, nor do I always believe exactly as I was taught, but I was able to think through my spirituality and ethics with something upon which to base it.  For that, I am grateful.  I think my parents made the right decision to have me baptized. In fact, of all the people I know who were baptized I never heard anyone complain that their parents had them baptized as infants.

Perhaps we as parents and as members of the body of Christ are responsible for influencing the decisions of our children.  Perhaps that’s our job.  Perhaps, if our children have an informed understanding of the faith they will be in an even better position to make choices later in life.

Blessings,

Pastor Steve

His followers watched Jesus as He prayed on the Mount of Olives, as He was betrayed, as He was judged by those unworthy to judge Him, and as He died on the cross.  Unlike those followers, we know what Easter morning brings.  We know that the stone has been rolled away.  So we can wait in great anticipation, in peace and in joy.  We know that Easter morning will resound with the shouts of “He Is Alive!”

If you like, sign-up for a shift around the fire.  Make sure it burns brightly through the night as a testimony to our anticipation. Bring your campers, bring your chairs, or just pull up a log to sit around the fire.  Come for half an hour or all night.

And celebrate with us as the sun rises and we use the flame from the Vigil Fire to light our candles and our way to the Easter Sunrise Service at 6:30 a.m.!

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Meetings

• The RUMC Women’s Prayer Group meets at 6:30 a.m. every Thursday at the Ramona McDonald’s. We gather around a table to share a light breakfast. A Christian study is shared. We update our prayer list of concerns, both in our own family, our church family and in the world. We mention our joys and hopes and place all in God’s hands. We are on our way to work or home by 7:30 a.m. All are welcome.
• Friendship Circle meets the first Wednesday morning of each month at 10 a.m. at member’s homes. This circle meeting includes devotions, refreshments, and friendly conversation.
• RUMC Women meet on the fourth Monday of each month, September through June. Following a potluck meal or dessert and fellowship, the meeting agenda includes Biblical devotions, prayer, program, and reports. All women are invited. Childcare is available.

Missions

Local missions aid the Little People’s Learning Center, In His Steps, Adopt-A-Family at Christmas, Easter baskets for Head Start, prayer blankets and quilts for individuals in need, and Habitat for Humanity. National missions include the David & Margaret Home in Arcadia and help for hurricane victims. Worldwide missions are funded by “Fellowship of the Least Coin,” World Thank Offering, and individual member pledges.

Annual Retreat

The 2009 Ramona UMC Women’s Retreat was at Pine Valley Bible Conference Center, September 18-20. The theme was “The Wonderful Gift of Friendship” and our guest speaker was Charisse Williams.

More than 600 meals were provided for families who may not have been able to afford Thanksgiving dinner. Our turkey dinner began as a mission project and has grown to be a great community service. Through ticket sales to members, friends and family, we serve complimentary meals to the homeless, families in need, the home-bound, In His Steps, Michael’s House and many others. 100% of the proceeds go to mission support.